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What Should You Talk About When Meeting Someone for the First Time? Tips for Starting a Conversation in English

2026-09-10 · 5 min read

Meeting someone from another country for the first time can be exciting — but also a little nerve-racking.

You might know enough English to have a conversation, but suddenly find yourself thinking:


“What should I talk about?”


The good news is that you don’t need perfect English or an interesting story to start a good conversation.

A few simple questions and reactions are often enough.

Here are some easy ways to start and continue a conversation with someone you’ve just met.



1. Start with a Simple Introduction

You don’t need to say anything complicated.

Start with the basics:


  • “Hi, I’m Dax. Nice to meet you!”
  • “Hi! Where are you from?”
  • “Is this your first time here?”
  • “How’s your day going?”

These simple questions can naturally lead to other topics.


For example:

A: Where are you from? B: I’m from Canada. A: Oh, nice! Which part of Canada?


The key is not just asking a question — it’s listening to the answer and finding something you can ask about next.



2. Talk About Where You’re From

Your hometown or country is one of the easiest topics when meeting someone from another country.

Try questions like:


  • “Where are you from?”
  • “What’s your hometown like?”
  • “What’s your city famous for?”
  • “What food would you recommend from your country?”

You can also share something about yourself.


For example:

“I’m from Japan. I grew up in Fukuoka, which is famous for ramen.”


Giving a little information about yourself makes it easier for the other person to continue the conversation.



3. Ask About Food

Food is one of the best conversation starters because almost everyone has something to say about it.

You could ask:


  • “What’s your favorite food?”
  • “Do you like Japanese food?”
  • “What food should I try if I visit your country?”
  • “Do you like cooking?”

If they mention something you don’t know, that’s actually a great opportunity.

Try saying:


“I’ve never tried that. What’s it like?”


You don’t need to know everything. Curiosity keeps conversations moving.



4. Talk About Travel

Travel is another easy topic, especially when speaking with people from different countries.

Try asking:


  • “Have you ever been to Japan?”
  • “What countries have you visited?”
  • “Where would you like to travel next?”
  • “What’s your favorite place you’ve visited?”

Even if you haven’t traveled much, you can talk about places you’d like to visit.


For example:

“I’ve never been to Italy, but I’d love to visit Rome someday.”



5. Ask About Hobbies and Free Time

Once you’ve exchanged basic information, hobbies are a natural next step.

Try:


  • “What do you like to do in your free time?”
  • “Are you into sports?”
  • “What kind of music do you listen to?”
  • “Do you watch Netflix?”
  • “What have you been watching recently?”

When you find something you both like, the conversation becomes much easier.



6. Use Follow-Up Questions

One of the biggest mistakes English learners make is trying to think of a completely new topic after every answer.

You don’t have to.

Instead, ask a follow-up question.


For example:

A: What do you do in your free time? B: I like going to the gym. A: Nice! How often do you go? B: About four times a week. A: Wow! What kind of training do you do?


One simple topic can become a long conversation.

Useful follow-up expressions include:


  • “Really?”
  • “Why?”
  • “How about you?”
  • “How often?”
  • “What was it like?”
  • “How did you get into that?”
  • “Can you tell me more about that?”

Good conversations aren’t about asking lots of questions. They’re about showing genuine interest in the answers.



7. Don’t Be Afraid to Say You Don’t Understand

When speaking English, there will be moments when you don’t understand something.

That’s completely normal.

Instead of pretending to understand, try:


  • “Sorry, could you say that again?”
  • “Could you speak a little more slowly?”
  • “What does that mean?”
  • “I’m not familiar with that. Can you explain it?”

These phrases don’t stop a conversation.

They help you continue it.



8. Share Your Own Answers Too

A conversation shouldn’t feel like an interview.

If you only ask questions, the other person may feel like they’re being interviewed.

Try sharing your own experience after asking something.


For example:

You: What kind of music do you like? Partner: I like rock music. You: Nice! I listen to rock sometimes too. What bands do you like?

A simple pattern to remember is:


Ask → Listen → React → Share → Ask again

This creates a much more natural conversation.



9. You Don’t Need Perfect English

Many English learners wait until they feel “ready” before speaking.

But speaking is how you become ready.

You will forget words.

You will make grammar mistakes.

There may even be a few awkward silences.

That’s okay.

The goal of a conversation isn’t to demonstrate perfect English.

The goal is to communicate with another person.



10. The Best Way to Get Better Is to Start Talking

You can memorize hundreds of phrases, study grammar, and watch English videos every day.

But eventually, you need to have a real conversation.

Start small.

Say hello.

Ask one question.

Listen carefully.

Ask another question.

Every conversation makes the next one a little easier.

That’s exactly what Chatter3 is designed for.

Chatter3 connects English learners with other learners for real conversations, so you can practice speaking without worrying about being perfect.


Connect. Speak. Earn.


Your next conversation doesn’t need to be perfect.

It just needs to start.

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